I started school in the Infant's School in Mount Street.
I do not remember much about the Infants School, except two incidents. There were two yards where we could play, the lower yard where the younger infants played, and another slightly higher, divided from the lower one by a high wall in which there was a gap and about three steps. In the higher yard the older infants tended to play. In the far right hand corner of the lower yard, looking from the gate by the road, were the toilets, one for the boys and one for the girls. It was really a long row of toilet cubicles with a high wall in front of them and a high wall in the middle dividing the boys’ from the girls’ section. The wall in front of the cubicles in the boys’ section was, of course, the urinal. One of our pastimes during “play time”, was trying to pee over the dividing wall into the girls half. No one ever succeeded as far as I remember: we just got wet, but it was good fun at that age. On one occasion one little girl came into the boys part and tried to pee against the wall like the boys did, and a teacher had to take her into the school to wash and dry her.
The other occasion I remember was just after World War II started. Everyone was issued with a gas mask, which had to be carried at all times when out of the house. The gas mask was in a small cardboard box with a length of string so that they could be carried over the shoulder. Some mornings, we had to have a gas drill, which meant we had to stand at our desks, and quietly and calmly walk out of the classroom, down the corridor, across the lower yard, up about three steps into the higher yard, and across to the rear boundary wall over which a hastily-built set of wooden steps led to an Air Raid Shelter. When the head teacher blew her whistle, which meant there was an Air Raid Warning, the whole school had to don our gas masks which we carried at all times, and walk in single file, and sit in the Shelter until the head teacher blew a whistle again to indicate that the pretend Air Raid was over and we all trooped back to our class rooms, very exited, and still not understanding what a war was, or what an air raid meant, except that both was something dangerous.
Later I moved up to the Elementary School, which was next door to the Boys’ Grammar School. I missed a lot of school in the early years because of my frequent illnesses, mainly pneumonia and bronchitis, but including Scarlet Fever, which put me in the Isolation Hospital on Garngoch Common for six weeks. My recollections of Garngoch are of being in a single bed cubicle, which had glass windows on either side so one could look down the whole length of the ward and see all the other patients. There was also a window at the head of the bed so that one could see one’s visitors, who were not allowed to enter the hospital, which was quarantined. Mam and Dad, and my sister, Marion, used to come every Saturday and stand outside in the cold and, very often rain, and talk to me, mainly by sign language from there. Being in the middle of a large common, and open to the Lougher estuary up which the prevailing west winds used to blow, it was not very comfortable for visitors. Any food, toys or books which they brought for me had to be handed in at the entrance, and were not allowed to be taken back out. Once in, everything stayed in. I still remember with sorrow that they brought me a book I had had for Christmas, which was a great favourite of mine, and the pang I felt when I realised I would not be able to take it home with me.
Another incident I remember occurred when another little boy, Ryland Jones, a year or two younger than I was, was admitted and put in the next cubicle. Every morning the nurse would stick a thermometer under our tongues, and every morning Ryland bit his and had to have his mouth washed out and cleared of broken glass and mercury. I think that finally they found another way of taking his temperature without sticking the thermometer in his mouth. Of course, when I was five years of age, the Second World War broke out, and apart from seeing my father in his Home Guard or Air Raid Warden’s uniforms and being held out of the back bedroom window by my mother to watch the bombing of Swansea during the blitz, the War had little meaning for me. I remember the maps in the daily papers showing the progress or otherwise of the fighting, and being frightened for the first time in my life when some 82 German prisoners-of-war escaped from Island Farm Prisoner of War Camp in Bridgend in 1945, but that was about all. I suddenly became aware that there might be an escaped German Prisoner lurking behind a bush who might leap on me as I passed and eat me, and I was ever so relieved when we heard on the BBC radio about a week later that they had all been captured and were secure in their prison once again. For the last few years I have been walking my dogs in that same Prisoner of War camp, although, all that is left of it now is Hut 9, from which.the prisoners had escaped. It is now all overgrown, waiting for the Council to decide what they are going to do with the land.
Eventually I reached the age of 11, in 1945, when I was old enough to sit the Scholarship Examination for entry to the County Grammar School.
Form 3B, Gowerton Grammar School, 1947-8 (I am in 2nd Row from back, and 2nd from the right)
The Headmaster of the Elementary School was a Mr. Gilbert Sluman, who kept his cane in his trouser pocket, where he could whip it out instantly to crack it across the legs of any boy who misbehaved in the schoolyard or in class. It was reputed that he had a steel plate in his head, which mad him more fearsome. My mother went to see him, and told him she wanted me to sit the Scholarship Exam, and he told her it would be silly and only make me look foolish. She insisted that as there was the chance for me on offer, I had a right to try the Exam, and so my name went forward. A lot of boys and girls, certainly a classroomful, probably about twenty or so of us, sat the exam, and only four passed, one of whom was me. The others were Jimmy Evans, son of the local Scout Master, Degwel Owen, son of the local Welsh Baptist minister, (who tried at one stage to teach us Welsh, but not for long,) and I think the fourth was Reggie Morgan, whose mother was a widow, but I have since been told that he was two years later than us. Anyway, off we went to the Grammar School, and Mam and Dad had to buy the uniform, satchel, and things I would need, which they could not really afford, but considered necessary for my advancement. The only other teacher I can remember from the Elementary School was a Mr.Griffiths, a tall smart man with a good head of hair, who always was good and kind, and believed in me. Passing the Scholarship was more important to me than the end of the War!
I had joined the Wolf Cubs when I was 7 years old, even though one had to be eight really.
Me, in the 1st Gowerton Wolf Cub Pack. Aged about 9 years. Last on right, front row
I progressed to a Patrol second and then to Sixer, and remained in the Cubs until I passed up to the Boy Scouts at the age of 11. The Scoutmaster was Mr. Handel Evans, Jimmy’s father. I did well in the Scouts and enjoyed it, passing my Tenderfoot Badge to be enrolled, then my Second Class Badge, after which I could try for Proficiency Badges in numerous activities. The village was almost surrounded by several areas of woodland where we spent a lot of our time during Troop meetings. Otherwise, we were in the Scout Hut, which was the old skittle alley of the Conservative Club, but had been taken over as a rifle range for the Home Guard, during the war. We were always finding discharged .22 cartridges in odd corners. I remember well my test for my Cycling Badge, the examiner for which lived near Bishopston on the Gower. Part of the test was that I had to cycle so many miles, so cycling from Gowerton, via Three Crosses and Fairwood Common to get to the tester covered that. Then I had to demonstrate that I could change a tyre and repair a puncture, and knew about road safety, etc. This I did quite easily, passed my test, and left clutching my certificate, to cycle back to Gowerton. About three miles from the tester’s house, I had a flat tyre on the top of the Mayals Hill on my way to the Mumbles Road. I stopped to repair it, pumped up my tyre and set off again, but within a few yards, my tyre was flat again. After several attempts to repair it, I ended up walking all the way to the Mumbles Road, back to Black Pill, up to Killay and eventually home to Gowerton, something like twelve miles, pushing my bike! When a youth club was opened in the village, held in the Elementary School, with Mr. Efan Williams. A teacher from Penclawdd, as Youth Leader, I joined that as well, and enjoyed many happy evenings doing leatherwork, drama, woodwork, etc. I still have wallet and a writing case that I made there. I joined the choir, and met my first childhood sweetheart, Margaret James.
I had seen her about in the village, and thought she was gorgeous, but she was from a family who had a shop in the village, and did not go “out to play” like most of us, and she went to a private school in Swansea, I believe. The first night she came to the Youth Club, I happened to be walking up the corridor past the door of the school singing on the top of my voice (which we were allowed to do) and I heard someone knocking the door. This was such a strange thing to happen that I swung the door open and there she stood. I was taken aback that I should come face to face with her, and was the one who invited her in and took her to Mr. Williams to introduce her. She went to “Church”, the Church in Wales church on the top of the hill called, oddly enough, Church Street. I went to Tabernacl Welsh Congregational Chapel, the other end of the village. I eventually plucked up the courage to ask her if I could walk her home after club one night, and she agreed. She only lived about 400 yards from the Youth Club! After a while we started “walking out”, which meant meeting after church and walking together for about an hour before taking her back to her front door. It was weeks before I took her arm, or held her hand, and I don’t ever remember kissing her. One did not do that in those days. But she was my “girl-friend” until after I joined the army, but more of that later. My other memory of the youth club is that Evan Williams decided to start a drama group, which I joined, and he decided to put on a play, about a little boy called Peter Ulric Smith. It was a one-act play, and followed the career of this lad, as seen through the eyes of his mother, his schoolteacher, his employer, etc. Throughout the play, his mother sat gazing adoringly at her new baby in his cot, and dreaming of the wonderful life of great achievements he would enjoy, while the reality of his life was being portrayed in little scenes behind a gauze curtain with each character in a little shielded part of the stage, and each lit up when he had to speak a line. I was his headmaster, who had not one word of praise for him, like all the other characters throughout his life. I borrowed a Mortar Board and gown from my headmaster, Dr. Tom James. The only line of mine that I remember was: “Peter Ulric Smith? What a name to give a fellow!” I believe he ended up in prison, or something horrible like that. I finally tired of the Scouts in Gowerton, and Marion was the Lieutenant in a Guide Company in Dunvant, about two miles away, and they met in the barn of an old farm where the Scouts also met. The Scoutmaster, Cyril Lewis, lived in the farm (more of a small holding, really) at the bottom of the Voylart, the road running from the village to Fairwood Common. She persuaded me to go there, so I left the 1st Gowerton troop and joined the 23rd Swansea (1st Dunvant) troop, where I became a Patrol Second, and then Patrol Leader of the Wolf Patrol, and later the Troop Leader. Cyril Lewis, known to us as Skip, was a postman, based in Gorseinon, and taught us all we had to know about Scouting, and we had the whole of Fairwood Common on which to play our Wide Games and practice our woodcraft, camping, tracking, and so on. He also taught us Single Stick, a form of stylised fencing with sticks, and, as I learned many years later, was a sport played by gentlemen’s sons as part of their swordsmanship training, when every gentleman wore a sword as part of his dress as well as for defence. He also taught us to fight with a Quarterstaff, which is very similar but with staves instead of sticks.
The other highlight of the week was the Friday night dance in the village hall in Grovesend, about 3 or 4 miles from Gowerton, on the road to Pontardulais. I had a florin, two shillings (10 new pence), pocket money per week, and on Fridays, I spent 4d for a return ticket to Grovesend on the bus, 9 pence (later 1 shilling or 5 New Pence), to go into the dance, 2p for a glass of pop, for a whole evening’s entertainment. We did waltzes, quicksteps, foxtrots, Continental Tango, Palais Glide, Hokey-Cokey, etc., to music from a piano and a set of drums, and met girls from a wide area, and still had 6d (2p) left of my pocket money to see me through the week. Later on, I started going to adult dances in the Church Hall in Gowerton, where one of the girls who used to go to Grovesend dances attended with her parents. Here we did Old Tyme Dancing as well as some Barn Dancing, and I learned the Dashing White Sergeant, Military Two Step, and numerous other dances, which came in useful later on as I got older. I remember buying a bottle of Californian Poppy perfume for the girl from Grovesend, but it never came to anything. She was courting somebody from Gorseinon! One of my memories of this period is that when I was about 12 or 13 years old, about 1946 or 47, there was a prolonged drought, and eventually there was no water in the taps. The only source of water then was a spring, usually called “the Well”, situated in Cae Basset, on the road to Three Crosses. It was off the road on the edge of Cae Basset woods, about half or three-quarters of a mile from Mount Pleasant. Whenever we went to play in the woods there, we inevitably had a drink from the well. The water always tasted beautiful, and I have a memory of going to the well with a bucket to fetch water during the drought, pulling it on my “fourer”, (a plank with four wheels). There was a queue at the well, because a lot of people were going there for water with milk churns, zinc baths and all sorts of containers. I am sure that by the time I got the bucket home, most of the water would have splashed out on the bumpy steep hill down which I had to guide it.
All our social activities were in addition to the homework we had to do as pupils in the Grammar School, something the other boys in the Elementary school did not have to do. In school, I was in Form 1c, 1b being for the brainier pupils, and 1a for the brainiest. We all had to learn English, Welsh, French, Latin, History, Geography, Arithmetic, Algebra, Geometry, Biology, Chemistry and Physics, in fact, all the subjects, before we were allowed to decide which subjects to drop as we went up through the school to take the School Certificate at 16, after which we could either leave school, or go on to the 6th Form for two years to take the Higher School Certificate, which was necessary for entry to University. And we had homework in every subject, except Gymnastics, which later became known as Physical Education.
I managed to pass my annual exams and progressed up through the school, from 1c to RM (the Remove) and then to 3b. In the second year, instead of 2a, 2b and 2c, there was only RA and RM. In the third year I found myself in 3b, and in the fourth year, 4b, to take the first big exams, for the Central Welsh Board, General School Certificate of Education, at the age of 16. I was never one of the brightest in school, and Mam and Dad arranged for me to have coaching in Mathematics, because I was always hopeless at Arithmetic. I still am!
There was a teacher living in Lougher, who had a large shed in his garden, carpeted and furnished with a table and a couple of kitchen chairs, and here he gave extra coaching to lads like me. I hated, and feared Maths, especially Arithmetic, although I enjoyed Geometry and did not do too badly in Algebra. Perhaps it was something to do with the fact that I never learned my Tables beyond the Seven Times Table in the Elementary School!! Boys, and girls, who did not get to Grammar School stayed in the Elementary school until they were 14, and then left to find whatever work was available, or go to Technical College. Mam and Dad both believed that one was not educated unless one played an instrument, and so I was sent for piano lessons with a woman in Kingsbridge. Every Tuesday night, I would go on the bus, (or walk to save the money) for my shilling’s worth, (5p) of half hour lesson. I learned the rudiments of music and developed a love of playing, but I never really mastered the art of reading the music and playing it at the same time. I usually played by ear rather than by reading the music.
I do not remember most of my school teachers, but one who stands out in my mind was Mrs. Norton, who taught English, and lit in me a fire of enthusiasm for poetry. I always remember her telling the class on one occasion that the saddest words in the English language were “too late”, and whenever I find that I have not done something, and that circumstances have changed irrevocably and I can now not do what I should have done, I remember Mrs. Norton’s words. She also gave me a wigging one day when she had seen my end of year school report and my marks in mathematics. She took me on one side and scolded me severely. She said: “I do not understand you. You are so clever in English, both Language and Literature, and it is the same brain you use for Mathematics, so why do you get such low marks in that?” I promised her I would try to do better, which I did, and eventually got my School Certificates in maths.
I also remember Mr. Ieuan Williams, who taught Welsh in an inspiring way, and Mr. Watkins (Watty), who taught music, and allowed me to play my father’s mandolin in the school orchestra in Assembly each morning sitting behind the first violins. He lived in Bridgend but lodged in Gowerton all the week. His wife was a teacher in Bridgend, and was, in fact, the headmistress of the Comprehensive School when my children went there so many years later. I also remember John Morse. I do not remember what his main subject was, but he also got landed with the Commercial Class, teaching Shorthand, Typing, Book-keeping and Economics, in the Sixth Form. There was also a teacher of French, called Mr, E.G. Davies, who was inevitable nicknamed Egg or Eggie, who had absolutely no control over a class of boys, and was tormented by everyone. How anyone learned French at that time I shall never understand.
Marion, aged 5 years in Class 2, Gowerton Infants School, 1931 fourth from right, middle row
Marion had left school and Mam and Dad had somehow found the money to send her to The Bible College in Sketty, near Swansea, to learn Typing, Shorthand and Bookkeeping, so that she could get a “good job”.
Marion in her early teens
She became a shorthand typist in the Llwchwr Urban District Council offices in Gorseinon, where she worked for a number of years.
She had been involved with the Girl Guides from a child, and became a Lieutenant, and later a Captain of the Girl Guides Company in Dunvant, and later still, the District Commissioner.
Marion, Standard Bearer, of Gowerton Girl Guides Company
She was persuaded by someone to apply for a one-year course at Swansea University College to train to be a Youth Leader. She was accepted and was then able to tell me about the Social Science Course there, and found out what qualifications I would need to get on it. She qualified, and went on to much greater achievements later on. Her first job, as I recall, was with the YWCA in Sketty, Swansea, but she later worked in Wem, Shropshire, in Coventry, in Pwll and Burry Port (two clubs), and eventually in Nottingham.
Marion in her first long Evening Dress
Meanwhile, I was still at school worrying about ‘School Cert’ and ‘Higher’, later called “O” Level and “A” Level of GCE, but also enjoying life when not doing the dreaded homework. I also remember, when my father was ill, money was always short for us. One little relief that I had from time to time was that I had been asked to pump the organ in Tabernacle, our Welsh Congregational Chapel in Gowerton, now, sadly, demolished. An older girl, Alvis John, was asked to be the regular organist, and they wanted a regular organ pumper. It was a fine pipe organ, which relied on bellows to provide the wind to blow through the pipes when played, and the bellows had to be filled by someone pumping a large handle up and down. Alongside the pump handle was a cord, with a weight on the end, hanging out of the side of the organ on a little wheel. As one pumped air into the system, this weight would move down the side of the organ, indicating how much air was in the bellows. If one’s attention wandered and the pumping slowed down, the weight would creep back up until the sound of the organ resembled a dying cow, and required frantic pumping to restore the pitch of the music, causing great embarrassment to the pumper. Since a small child, I had attended Sunday School regularly, until I was about 12 or 13, when I found I was the only boy in the class full of girls, and I got fed up. Mam was getting me ready to go one Sunday, when I burst out that I did not want to go, and why. Surprisingly, she accepted it and I was excused Sunday School until I was ready to start again which was when I started pumping the organ. Of course, apart from Sunday services at 10.00 am and 6.00.pm, plus Sunday School at 2.30.pm, there were also marriages, funerals, and occasional extra services during the week,. Fortunately, my headmaster, Dr.Tom James, was a deacon in Tabernacle, so I was given permission to leave the school to perform my duties as organ-pumper, whenever required. It also provided me with an opportunity to do my last bits of homework or swatting for exams, sitting right at the back of the chapel, upstairs and tucked away by the side of the very large organ.
Several ladies of the chapel used to sit in the front row of the balcony, and formed a small choir in effect, and they always ignored me, sitting several rows behind them on my own. The only time they did take special notice of me was when my aged grandmother was very ill in bed, and rumours were frequently circulating that she had died. These ladies would have a whispered conversation and then one would turn round and ask me how she was. When I would reply that there was no change in her condition, she would turn back and spread the word that she had not “gone” yet, and then they would all ignore me again. Alvis was offered 10 guineas (£10.10s)(or £10.50p in New Money) a year for playing and I was offered 2 guineas for pumping, which I though at the time was very unfair. It was harder pumping than it was just sitting and playing!! When I eventually left school and went off to the Army, I was interested to know who became my successor. That turned out to be an electric pump, which the organist switched on from her seat, and which always supplied a reliable flow of wind.
Attending chapel regularly meant that I saw and heard all the preachers who came when our own minister, James Abel, was away. I remember some of the very old ones who preached in a style which eventually more-or-less died out. It was called “The Hwyl”. This style of preaching was very dramatic, and one of the techniques was to slowly lower the voice, speaking very confidentially, until the preacher was almost whispering (except that one could still hear and understand what he was saying) and when the congregation were lulled by this, he would suddenly raise his voice and shout his message out loudly, causing everyone to jump up with a start. I remember one minister with a mop of long white hair, but I cannot remember his name. I know he was one of the well-known preachers of the day. He dropped his voice on the occasion I remember, and when the chapel was still and mesmerised, he suddenly thumped the Bible on the pulpit and bellowed out his message, but in the process punched all his notes over the edge and into the Big Seat where the deacons sat. He calmly walked to the top of the pulpit stairs, and down into the Big Seat, gathered up all his papers in a very dignified way, returned up to his place. He settled all his papers on the Bible and then announced proudly: “There is a perfect example of a man following what he preaches!” It was one of those rare occasions when the congregation laughed during a service. Another incident regarding Chapel which has stayed with me was regarding dress. It must have been when I was about 14 or 15 years old, because I had just gone into Long Trousers, one of the significant milestones in the journey of growing up. I was getting ready for going to chapel on a hot summer day, wearing my new grey long trousers and a new black blazer. I had on a white shirt and I left the top button open and arranged my collar out over the collar of my blazer. I was about to leave when my father came in and saw me, and asked where I was going. I told him I was going to chapel and he said: “Well, where’s your tie?” I told him I didn’t want to wear a tie, and he said I had to wear a tie to chapel. I asked why, and he said: “To show respect, boy. Respect!” So, I put my tie on go to chapel, and have done so ever since.
He did not seem to notice when I started going to Chapel on my bicycle instead of walking, although cycling on a Sunday was considered to be not quite right. Especially cycling to Chapel! However, I noticed, when I went to get my bike to go to an evening service, and could not find it. I had ridden it to the morning service, forgotten about it, and had walked home. That meant I had to run all through the village or be late that evening to pump the organ. And, my bike was still where I had left it. Those were the days! At school, most of us joined Urdd Gobaith Cymru, The Welsh League of Youth, a sort of Welsh speaking youth club. I joined, of course, and we did things like singing in a choir, singing solo, reciting and Cyd-adrodd. Cyd-adrodd, or Choral Speaking, a peculiar Welsh custom, is a form of group recitation. A group of anything from three up to about ten would recite a poem in unison. This is harder than one might think, because everyone had to speak, not only in time with each other, but also at the same volume and putting exactly the same expression, inflections, etc, so that it sounded as though only one person was speaking. We entered Eisteddfodau, and one of the first I went to as part of a choir and a choral speaking group, was the Glamorgan County Interschool Eisteddfod, held, oddly enough, in Bridgend. It was held in what was then either Bridgend Boys’ Grammar School or the Secondary Modern School, if they had been invented by that time. Anyway, it is now the Brynteg Comprehensive School. I was about 12 years old, and had never been as far from home as this without my parents before, except to the Rhondda on holidays, but I was with friends and enjoying the experience, until I strolled alone across the playing fields to a gate looking out onto what I later learned was the A48. As I stood there looking at the Island Farm opposite, a bus came pass, going west, and on the destination board in the front was the word SWANSEA in big letters, and I suddenly felt very homesick. Fortunately I was then called back to the school for another rehearsal of either the choir or the choral speaking group, and the feeling passed. But it was all a great adventure.
Early Holidays
Later we were given the chance to go to camp in Llangranog, on the West Wales coast, and a few of us expressed interest. I told Mam and Dad about it and they decided that I could go. With hindsight now, I cannot understand how they could afford it, but they did, obviously by going without something themselves. We were picked up by coach, picking up others en route and taken to the camp, which was on a large sloping field overlooking the cliffs and the sea, and full of huge ex-army bell tents and wooden huts.
One row of huts at the top of the field was for the games room, the dining hall and kitchen and accommodation of the “Swyddogs”, (Officers), the staff of the camp, whom we all called the “Swogs”, and, I think, the girls were in huts also,.. In the tents, were four camp beds, and all our belongings and clothes were in kitbags, and kept under the beds. We went to the beach several times and we went by coach to Llangefni in Anglesey to the Urdd Eisteddfod for a day, but mostly we were playing games in the field, and the week sped by. The next year I was given the chance to go again, and for some reason, I went for two weeks, which was great, except for the Saturday morning when nearly all the other boys and girls piled into coaches and disappeared home, leaving only a few of us in camp. They, of course, left after breakfast, and it was not until late afternoon that the next crowd arrived, and in that space of time, I again felt a pang of homesickness. As far as I can recollect, this, and the occasion in Heol Gam school, were the only times I ever felt homesick. Even when I went off to the army, knowing that it would be several months before I would be allowed home on leave, I did not feel it, until I went to the firing ranges in Ash, near Aldershot, and smelt the gorse blossom that covered most of that area, and I immediately thought of the Cuckoo Tips, which was also covered with gorse.
While I was at school, by father was ill, and unable to work, so money was always short for us. This was before the setting up of the National Health Service, and there was no Sickness benefit to be had. We did have some income, but I cannot remember where it came from. I know my father belonged to The Recobites, a charitable organisation to which he had contributed over the years, and he had a weekly payout from them when he was ill. He always swore that if he could not provide for the family and his wife had to go out to work, he would put his head in the gas oven, and “do away with himself”. Mam did, however, get a little job, housecleaning for Dr. Morgan Owen, the local doctor while he was in the surgery, and did lots of little jobs, which brought in a few shillings to keep us going. She also bought any clothes that were needed from the draper’s shop in the village, Jones the Drapers, and paid for them in small weekly instalments. She then got me a job with the same draper, to go around collecting the weekly payments from the customers who paid in instalments, which was most of them. I had a little notebook, with a page for each customer, and on Saturday mornings I went around them all collecting their sixpences or shillings a week. When I took the money to the shop, it was counted and I was paid sixpence (2½ p in today’s money) for every pound I collected, and this was my pocket money. A few years later, the post war government introduced Unemployment Benefit and Sickness Benefit, which, although small, eased the situation for millions of people.
Dad never seemed to cotton-on to the fact that Mam was working and earning money to keep us. I suspect that he did and decided to ignore it because he knew that it was necessary. It is funny how one always remembers the pleasant things, and the not-so-pleasant are filed away and only rarely, if ever, come back to one’s mind. Another even greater adventure than going to Llangranog which still hangs about in my memories of school days, was a cycling trip to North Wales to climb Snowdon. Gareth Williams, my great mate in school, Welsh-speaking, Congregationalist like me, lived in Gorseinon with his mother. He was an only child and his father had died some years earlier. He had an uncle, a Headmaster, living in North Wales and we planned to cycle up to Caernarvon, and stay with this uncle, who was an expert on all the North Wales mountains. With parental permission, we started making plans and decided we would have to “train” for such a long trip. Our training consisted of cycling up to the Rhondda, going via Swansea and Port Talbot and over the Maerdy Mountain to Pentre, to Uncle Gerald and Auntie Morfydd. We went off one Saturday, and slept the night there, and returned on Sunday, via Treherbert and the Rhigos back to Neath and home. Cycling up the mountain from Treherbert, we were riding at one point on what was virtually a ledge on the side of a cliff face, and while on that section of road, we had a torrential storm, and were soaked to the skin. However, once over the top, we freewheeled downhill at great speed and dried ourselves out by the time we got to Hirwaun. Several months later, we cycled to Caernarfon in North Wales, without any further “training”.
It was quite an adventure. I cycled from Gowerton to Gorseinon on a heavily loaded bike, complete with a tent for over-night stays on the journey, and a Sturmey Archer Three Speed. We set off early, the weather remained sunny and warm, and we got to Aberystwyth, about teatime, where, quite by chance, we met one of Gareth’s many cousins, who was staying with some of her friends in a guesthouse for a week. They were sitting in a chip shop as we passed, so we joined them for fish and chips. As we had not arranged anywhere to stay the night, except some vague idea of pitching the tent somewhere, they persuaded us to sneak in with them and spend the night in their room, which we did, sleeping on a very hard floor, and set off again the next morning. All very innocent in those days. The next day we set off up the coast. The weather remained in our favour and we did well until we got to Trawsfynydd, where, as on our training trip to Rhondda, a very nasty storm blew up and the rain was battering us, so we got off the road, onto the common, and hid under a very small bush growing out of the bank, and waited until it all blew over. Eventually it stopped raining and the sun came out again, so we continued our journey. We had stopped briefly in Beddgelert to see the famous grave of Gelert the dog, but oddly, my recollection of that place in later years was unbelievably wrong. Whenever I thought of the incident, I could clearly see a fairly flat road running along the valley floor, and we had to turn left up a steep hill road over the mountain to continue our journey, and Gelert’s grave was on the bank on the right-hand side, with a high retaining wall, and a tall memorial stone. When I visited the grave many years later, I was genuinely surprised to find the grave in the middle of a very large flat field or park and that it had always been there. Where the other picture of it came from I shall never know.
However, we continued, as far as I now recollect, without further incident until it started to get dark, and because of the delays we had not reached our destination. Gareth started getting worried about his uncle worrying about where we were, so we decided to telephone him. We came to a rather steep hill running down into the valley, and through a village, which was really just a row of houses on each side of our road. Gareth decided to stop, and I jammed on my brakes, but failed to stop before I reached him, and my brake handles knocked his hand and drew blood, which upset him. We saw a light in one of the houses, and knocked on the door, at which the light immediately went out, and the house was silent. We saw a light back up the hill a little way, so we trudged up there, Gareth nursing his hand in his handkerchief, and this time the door was opened at our knock. It turned out to be the house of the local schoolmaster, who was a friend of Gareth’s uncle, whom he telephoned to explain our situation and that we were all right, and then gave us tea and cakes, and bandaged Gareth’s hand while we awaited the arrival of his uncle in a car to collect us. We left the bicycles in his friend’s garage, and rode the rest of the way, in style, if not a little weary. The next day, “uncle” took us back to collect our bikes, and we rode the last 8 or 10 miles of our journey, so we can still say that we did cycle all the way.
We then spent a week sight-seeing and, most memorably, being taken by car to a small village, from where we walked up the mountain to Crib Goch, then the ridge of Crib y Ddisgl, overlooking the lake way down below us at the bottom of a sheer drop, and so up to the summit of Snowdon itself. Gareth’s uncle knew the area like the back of his hand and knew where all the deep dangerous bogs were. There we enjoyed magnificent views over the Menai Straits and Anglesey, and out to sea towards Ireland, and inland, to the impressive mountains of North Wales. It seemed to be a tradition to put a stone on top of a huge pile at the very top of Snowdon, and while we were admiring the views and climbing up onto this pile, a family of Americans arrived, loaded down with cameras. One, a rather stout, loud-voiced, dominant male, proclaimed loudly about the view, and started getting his large, expensive cameras out from the bags around his neck, and by the time he had a camera out and held to his eye, the mist had come down for a compete white-out, and there was no more view further than a few yards! Our attitude was – “Served him right!” We followed the railway track down to Llanberis and somehow, I cannot remember how, returned to collect uncle’s car and back home to bed. A most remarkable and memorable day.
To return home, instead of simply retracing our route down the West Coast, we cycled from Caernarfon along to Bangor, around Bala Lake, down the East side of Wales. We got as far as Newtown on the first day, and pitched the little bivouac (which we had carried with us unused until now) in a field on the road out towards Builth Wells. To save carrying too much luggage on this adventure, we had taken very little in addition to clothes and food for the journey, so we had no bedding. We simply laid out the groundsheet in my little bivouac tent, put on all the spare clothes we had with us, and tried to sleep. I lay still and quiet all night, freezing to death, afraid of waking Gareth. Eventually Gareth made it clear that he was also awake, keeping quiet to avoid waking me. We crawled out of the tent just as the sun was rising, and gazed at the mist-filled valley below us looking like a large white lake, with church steeples and towers, and the occasional chimney, peeping out like lighthouses in a sea. Standing there just watching, we could see the mist very slowly lapping the hillside, like a sea in slow motion.
We tried to re-pack the tent, and squeeze it into my saddle bag, but it was soaking wet with dew, and all we succeeded in doing was to rip my saddle bag and ruin it. However, with a bit of string we managed to secure everything and then walk up the hill, pushing our laden bikes, before free-wheeling down the other side of the mountain. We arrived in Llandrindod Wells, and went to the Metropole Hotel, a huge, posh, Victorian hotel, where we could smell cooking. We locked up our bikes, and filthy, tired, and still sleepy, we went in to ask if we could have breakfast, only to be told that breakfast was being cooked, but it would be hour or so before they would start serving. We had no idea of the time, so we sat like Dickensian urchins in the lounge of this very posh hotel, eventually having breakfast, before continuing our journey on to Brecon, to Swansea and back to Gorseinon and Gowerton. I still have difficulty believing that we actually did this, but we did.
I tracked down Gareth many years later when we were both retired and arranged to meet him in Cardiff. He told me with great enthusiasm that the best holiday he had ever had was camping with me and another friend, Henry Wills, in Three Cliffs Bay on the Gower. I was able to reply that my best holiday of those youthful days was the trip to his uncle in North Wales. The other great adventure I was involved in, was camping on Lorna Doone Farm, Brendon, near Lynmouth in Devon with another great mate of mine, Henry Wills. Henry was an evacuee, who never returned to London after the war. I believe his parents were killed in the London Blitz, so he remained where he was in Gorseinon. He was a “typical” cockney, street wise, and a survivor. He wanted to go camping and I had a tent. It was actually two American Army bivouacs, which buttoned together to make a long low tent. My Auntie Winnie, Mam’s sister, was working on Lorna Doone Farm, on the edge of Exmoor, where we as a family had visited her. So we telephoned and asked if we could come and camp in one of their fields for a week. Mr. Richards and Mr. Burge, the two farmers who owned the farm, said we could, so in the summer we boarded the Ilfracombe steamer from Swansea and were put ashore at Lynmouth in a tender, and caught the bus up to the farm. The water was too shallow and there was no dock to put right in to Lynmouth After a welcoming meal, we pitched our tent on the far side of the field opposite the farm, and settled in. We were told to be at the farm for breakfast next morning, and told that we could pay for our stay by helping out in the kitchen and tea room. In addition to being a fully operational farm, with crops, sheep and cattle, it was also a tourist attraction providing lunches for tourists until about 3.o’clock, and then Devonshire Cream Teas until the last bus left about 5.30.
This worked fine for the first few days. Henry, who had done his “apprenticeship” as a Londoner, was quite at home serving at table and chatting up the visitors, while I found myself doing more in the kitchen, washing and drying dishes. Consequently, Henry was building up a huge sum of money in tips, on which I was missing out. Our first job in the morning, after a huge breakfast of bacon, eggs, and anything else that could be fried, was to go through the various barns looking for eggs. The chickens, of which there appeared to be dozens, had nests and so on for egg-laying, but, I suppose for self-preservation, they rarely laid eggs where they should, and preferred the tops of barn walls, and isolated places where they obviously thought their eggs would be safe. So we had a great time, climbing up into rafters, and along walls, crawling through hedges, and into all sorts of odd corners collecting eggs, and taking them to the kitchen. Then we were given a zinc bath full of potatoes to peel, after which we took the peelings and any other left-overs out to the pigs’ troughs, and sometimes had the added excitement of having to drive pigs back into their yard if they had got out. Pigs, it seems, can get through a gap no more than an inch wide, which provided us with endless fun trying to get them back.
By the time we had done all these sort of tasks, the first bus was arriving from Lynmouth with holiday makers, and we were in the dining room taking orders for lunch, then serving, and then clearing away, wiping tables for the next group. This went on from about 11.30 until around 3.00 or 3.30, when one bus would arrive with visitors wanting cream teas and taking away the last of those who had just had lunch, toured the farm-house, and perhaps walked up the Doone Valley through a gate across the road, which ran through the farm yard. Auntie Winnie always made a fortune taking visitors, as well as the resident holidaymakers around the farm house and telling them the story of Lorna Doone, and pointing out the gun which she claimed was the gun which shot Lorna Doone at her wedding in the little Malmsmead Church just up the road. I was amused to see that the side window of the church is always kept slightly open, because that is the window through which Carver Doone was supposed to have shot Lorna. Looking in through the window one finds oneself looking straight at the steps where a bride would stand to get married! One could forget it was only a story! We continued either serving at table or clearing dishes and washing them frantically, before the next bus arrived, as they did about every hour throughout the day. Eventually the last bus would arrive to collect the last of the visitors, and we were left to our evening chores, which consisted of washing the stone-flagged floor of the dining room, washing the tables and chairs, and the last of the dishes and stacking everything away ready for the next morning, and when all was spick and span again, we could sit at the large table in the kitchen with the farmers, and the rest of the staff, to a huge meal consisting of half a chicken, potatoes, cabbage, peas, beans, everything one could think of, piled high on a large dinner plate, followed by pudding and tea. Then, about 8.30 or 9.00 pm, we would be finished for the day. We set off one evening to walk to Brendon, the nearest village, about 3-4 miles down the valley. When we came to the Foxhunter’s, the local pub, Henry decided we ought to go in. I wasn’t sure, but there was nothing else to do. We went in to the lounge bar, rather than the bar where all the farmers were, and Henry made himself at home in the corner, and said that he would have a pint. I asked him, never having been in a pub before, a pint of what. He said: “Just say a pint, and she’ll know what it is.” I still could not make head nor tail of this, but eventually took his word for it, and when the woman came to serve us, I asked for a pint and a pint of cider. And she brought the pint of cider and a pint of bitter beer. We had a repeat order when we had drunk that, and set out to walk back to the farm, and thus we spent almost every evening thereafter.
We had intended only to stay for one week, but the weather turned so bad that the boats from Swansea stopped running, even to Ilfracombe, let alone Lynmouth. They could not put in to a dock side in Lynmouth anyway, so we had to wait for the weather to improve before we could get home. After two weeks of working in the kitchen and dining room, we decided we wanted a day off, and despite strange looks from Mrs. Richards, Mr. and Mrs. Burge, who could not get their heads around “a day off”, we caught the first bus on the Saturday morning to go to Lynmouth. After exploring what little there was of Lynmouth, we climbed the hill to Lynton and walked along to the Valley of Rocks, and tried to guess from which outcrop of rocks John Ridd had thrown the goat that was pestering the sheep in R.D. Blackmoore’s story of Lorna Doone. If we wanted to catch the last bus back to Malmsemead, we would not have had time to see all this, but we decided to risk it. By the time we made our way back to Lynmouth, we found, of course, that the last bus had gone. It was now after 5.30, and the last bus would have already reached Lorna Doone Farm and be on its way back. We decided that the river that ran through Lynmouth to the sea, was the one that ran through the farm yard, so if we followed the river up we would eventually reach the farm, and it would not be as far as the road which wound its way around all over the place. So we set off, and after an hour or more of walking through woodlands, fields and scrub, keeping as near as we could to the river bank, evening was drawing on and clouds were building up and eventually it started to rain.
We were in blazers and short trousers, and we got soaked. To add to the discomfort, I tried to take a photograph of the river from a bridge, and dropped the camera into the river, where it first hit a boulder and then sank. When I eventually got it out, it was damaged beyond repair and the film ruined. We struggled on in the darkness until we saw through the trees and bushes, a light in a window at the top of the bank on the other side of the river. So, we clambered over, climbed the bank and found ourselves on the road by a cottage. We knocked on the door, having no idea what time it was, and were answered by an old lady who worked in the tearoom at the farm. She directed us up the road to the village and the pub, where all the farmers would be drinking, it being Saturday, and we could have a lift back to the farm with them. It was, of course, the Staghunters, the pub in Brendon where we went every night. We had a lift back in the Landrover full of farmers, and asked Mr. Richards if we could sleep in one of the barns because the weather was so bad, and we did not fancy sleeping in my little tent. He agreed, so when we arrived at the farm, we set off across the field to the tent, collected our sleeping bags and pyjamas, and tramped back, still in the pouring rain, soaked to the skin, and went into a barn. The bales of straw on the upper level were set out in steps, so we rolled the second step on to the first step, creating a valley between it and the third step, laid out our sleeping bags, undressed and tried to sleep. I never knew until then how hot it can get lying in a trough of straw!! We hardly slept a wink, but we stayed in the barn for nearly a week.
At the end of the third week, we learned that the boats were running from Ilfracombe, so we eventually decided to take the bus there, and the boat from there back to Swansea, and out to Gowerton, very tired, and Henry at least very much richer from his tips at table. On a subsequent visit to Lorna Doone Farm with my mother to visit Auntie Winnie, I noticed two elderly ladies who had had lunch and were set on going up the Doone Valley. Mr. Burge, part owner of the farm, but was now rather elderly and resorted to more leisurely activities than farming, was sitting on a broken chair, by the gate leading to the valley, in his farming clothes, complete with leather gaiters and a leather money bag, rather like the old bus conductors used to use, collecting the sixpence he charged everyone to go through his gate to walk up his valley. The two elderly ladies approached him, and asked how much it was, despite the large cardboard hand-written sign. He told them and one of them produced a half-crown (2/6d). H e delved into his leather bag to find them change. He appeared to be in some difficulty finding the right money, and the old lady said, “Oh, that’s all right – you keep the change”, at which he touched his forelock and muttered “Thank you, Ma’am”. As the two ladies moved away, I heard one say to the other, “Poor old fellow!” Little did they know that the “poor old fellow” owned the farm, acres of land, half of Porlock and large areas of Minehead, Lynmouth and Lynton.
The other place where I camped for several teenage years was Three Cliffs Bay near Parkmill on the Gower Peninsular. We, as youngsters, used to walk, from time to time, from Gowerton up to Three Crosses, via Cae Basset and Cae Mansel, and then strike out across Fairwood Common to Ilston Valley, with its beautiful little church in the village, and a gorgeous valley full of bluebells and wild garlic, and out onto the South Road, past the ruins of the first Welsh Baptist (open-air) Chapel in Wales, and into Parkmill. Across the road from Shepherd’s café and shop, was another café, called Maes-yr Haf, behind which was a path which followed the river through some trees and out onto the estuary of Three Cliffs Bay, with Pennard Castle ruins perched on top of the hill on the left just before one reached the three cliffs, from which the bay gets its name. The steep bank down from the castle levelled out before becoming flat along the riverbank. When we were looking for somewhere to go camping one summer, I thought of this place. Together with Henry Wills, with whom I had camped at Lorna Doone Farm, we borrowed a then un-needed pram from Mrs. Minnie Phipps next door, packed it with my tent, sleeping bags, spare clothes, food, etc., and proceeded to push it all the way through Three Crosses and across Fairwood Common to Three Cliffs Bay, where we stayed for, I think, about three weeks. Our tent was an American Army bivouac, which I bought from Millets in Swansea. It consisted of two rectangular sheets, each with a triangular piece on the end. These two sheets were buttoned together to form a rectangular tent with a triangular back. Unfortunately there was nothing the other end except a triangular hole. It had two poles, about 3 – 3½ feet high, but I soon realised that if I had two of these tents, I could button one gap to the other and have one tent twice the length, with a button-able door at each end and three poles. This worked splendidly, with plenty of room for two, even three plus all our gear.
The river was very shallow when the tide was out, with stepping stones allowing access to the other side and the woods, but when the tide came in the river bed was flooded and most of the surrounding grass was under water. With the incoming tide came the fish, mainly flat fish, some of which would then be trapped by the stepping-stones, and when the tide had left that part of the river we could paddle quietly in the water, and spot the fish as they fled from our approaching feet. Once they stopped on the river bottom and flipped sand over themselves with their fins, they would virtually disappear if you took your eyes off them. But when you knew where they were they could be speared with a sheath knife and fried. We also found potatoes and cabbages in a field on the top of the opposite bank, and bought food in Shepherd’s Café. When we ran out of money we secured the tent and walked home to scrounge more cash from our parents, and walked back again. On one occasion, we were joined by a young couple from Birmingham, who were on a cycling tour. They had a tandem, with a little trailer on the back for their tent and equipment. They pitched about fifteen or twenty yards from us, and were very friendly. Then, one night he came knocking on our tent about 10 o’clock, in something of a panic because his wife was having an Asthma attack. She was obviously in a very bad way, so Henry set off to run to the village to telephone a doctor, while the husband seized the trailer, tipped everything out of it, sending tins of food rolling down the slope, put the sleeping bag into it and between us we lifted his wife into it and wrapped her against the cold night air. We then wheeled her in the dark towards the village, which involved crossing a steep sand bank which ran down to the bend in the river, and then on to the little path which ran through the woods, along a bank with the river just below us. At this point we got stuck, when one wheel of the trailer went over the side of the path and was overhanging the river.
By this time, the poor woman could hardly breathe and the noise of her breathing was frightening. I expected her to just die at any moment. At the same time, Henry was calling from the other end of the path to say he had a doctor there, who wanted us to bring her down to him. We explained the situation and the doctor was persuaded to come under the trees to us. We had three torches between us, and in their light the doctor examined the woman, and then injected her very slowly. As he slowly pressed down on the syringe the woman’s breathing became rapidly more easy and she, and we, relaxed. When she was completely at ease, we carried her the rest of the way, where the doctor had an ambulance now waiting, because he had taken the precaution of calling it before coming to the scene. The woman was bundled in, followed by her husband, and Henry offered to go as well as company and support for the husband. This offer was declined but we said we would wait for him in the village. We sat on a bench outside Jones Maes-yr-Haf’s café for over an hour and then decided he was not coming back that night so we returned to our tent. It was a good job we did because he did not return until about lunchtime next day, and then only to pack up all his gear and attach the trailer to his tandem and set off for Swansea hospital to wait for his wife to be discharged fit enough to cycle back to Birmingham. It was quite an exiting night as well as being a very frightening one. I have seen many asthma sufferers having an attack since, but never one as bad as that one. One year, Gareth Williams came with us, and, being from a fairly sheltered background, had the time of his life. That year the sun shone almost ceaselessly for weeks, and we intended to stay in Three Cliffs for a long time. However, running around in only a pair of shorts, in intensely hot sun, we were soon suffering from the heat. I, particularly, became so sunburnt that we eventually had to give in and set off for home. We struck camp, loaded everything into the pram and set off. I found it very difficult to walk with my legs and shoulders so badly burnt, but we got as far as Fairwood Common eventually. There had been a wartime RAF station on the common, which is now Swansea Airport, and there was an outbuilding of this that was a little café some distance from the road, and we made our way there for a rest and a mug of tea and a sandwich. We found the place, which was not easy to find, and while enjoying the huge mug of tea, I started to pass out, with a vision of a huge Negro face coming up close and backing off and coming up close repeatedly. I leapt to my feet, and said; “Come on, we’ve got to go,” and rushed out, grabbed the pram and set off as fast as I could. The other two followed, somewhat mystified, but it was much later that I was able to tell them of my hallucinatory experience. When we finally arrived back at my house, my mother stripped me and stood me in an enamel bowl and very tenderly swabbed me with cotton wool soaked in milk, until the burn had subsided. Henry and Gareth sat in the other room drinking tea. But that ended our camping for that year. After leaving school, I lost contact with Gareth, but when I started work in Newport I found that he was teaching in Cardiff, and we caught the same N&C coach from Swansea to Cardiff every Sunday night. When I moved to Bridgend we lost contact again, and it was some thirty years later that I tracked him down and arranged to meet him in the Fairwater Conservative Club in Cardiff. He had been teaching in a Welsh-speaking school in Cardiff since leaving university, and, like me, had now retired. I had found out which school he had been teaching at and telephoned but learned that he had retired. They would not give me his address, but agreed to pass on a letter from me to him. One of the first things that came up in conversation was that that camping holiday in Three Cliffs was still the best holiday he had ever had, before or since. When we met, after all those years, we talked about what we had both been doing. He was now married with two adult children, and his mother had passed away. He told me with great enthusiasm that the best holiday he had ever had was camping with me and Henry Wills, in Three Cliffs Bay on the Gower. I was able to reply that my best holiday of those youthful days was the trip to his uncle in North Wales. One year, a few of the younger children in Mount Pleasant wanted to borrow my tent to go camping, but rather than entrust it to their care, I decided to take them myself with Henry along to help. Their parents all trusted me, and we borrowed another tent, and took about five young kids to Three Cliffs. That was a great success. The wild ponies used to wander into the valley from time to time, and little Hubert Thomas, aged about 10, younger brother of Michael and Tony Thomas, who lived right opposite where I lived, fell in love with a little black, curly-haired pony, and would not be satisfied until we agreed to try to capture the pony for him. He worked out in his own mind where it could live and where he could get food for it, both of which were completely out of the question, but we spent several very entertaining days chasing the herd with ropes, which provided a lot of fun, but we caught no ponies!
Jamboree emblem, which was the left hand handshake. I still have it. Our troop headquarters were the old skittle ally extension behind the Gowerton Conservative Club, which during the war was the Home Guard firing range. We were forever finding spent 22mm cartridges in odd corners left over from those days. We had masses of equipment, including a full size Bell tent. What we did not have was a Trek Cart to carry the equipment about with us. I had to finish with the Troop when I started my Probation Training, and eventually it just closed down. Some years later I was contacted by a young couple, new to the village, who wanted to start it up again, and had been told to contact me. I could not help with where all the equipment had gone, but told them of all the places in the woods around the village where they could do outdoor stuff, but they just looked mystified. It was only on my way back to Bridgend that evening after visiting my mother, that I discovered that all the places I had mentioned were now large housing estates.
Another activity while at school was as Relief Postman. Every December, the Post Office would recruit temporary Postmen to cope with the Christmas Rush of cards and parcels. Jimmy Evans and I applied one year, and had a great time. We had to be in the Post Office by 6.0.am, because one of the regular postmen collected the mail from the GWR railway station at 5.30. We would then help with sorting the letters out into the various rounds, or walks as they were called, and then sort our own allocation into order before going out to deliver them. On one occasion Jimmy and I were delivering parcels in a huge wicker truck, which we had to push up the hill to Mount Pleasant and then up an even steeper hill to Cae Basset. We reached the level road at the top of the hill, and sat on the handles of the truck to get our breath back. Jimmy, who was shorter than I was, said he would rest there while I delivered a rather large, heavy parcel to a big private house behind a pair of heavy gates and a long drive. I got through the gate, turning to close it, and turned to go to the house, only to see the largest dog I had ever seen galloping towards me. Its head was bigger than mine, and his feet were immense. It was a huge St. Bernard, and he jumped up, put his great paws on my shoulders and pinned me to the gate. Someone, possibly the gardener, or maybe the owner of the house, called to the dog, which promptly ran to him. I delivered the parcel, which obviously contained large tins of dog food, and returned to the truck. Jimmy was still sitting on the handles and laughing himself silly, because he had watched me, pinned to the gate by a dog that was bigger than I was, calling out “Nice little doggie, nice little doggie.” I could have hit him.
I subsequently got temporary jobs with the postmen during the summers when the regular men went on holiday. I usually had the Cae Mansel/Three Crosses round, and had a post office bicycle for the job. This meant pushing it for about one and a half miles up a steep hill, delivering all the way from Gowerton to Three Crosses, but then the bike came in really useful, to deliver all round that village and to out-lying farms on Fairwood Common. It was also very useful for hurtling back down the long road to Gowerton. I was also glad of it when delivering to farms, especially on the common, because the geese wandered loose and used to attack me on the bike. The pump was an effective weapon the clout them on the neck as I hurtled past them. Christmas time on that route was particularly enjoyable, especially on Christmas morning, when I was given cakes and treats and usually Sherry, especially at the farms, “to keep the cold out!” and usually got home for Christmas dinner somewhat tiddley. I continued on in school and took the Central Welsh Board examinations when I was 16. In those days, one did not have grades as they do today. We had either Fail (under 40%), Pass (40%+), Credit (60%+ or Distinction (80)+. I never had a Distinction, but had credits in all the subjects except mathematics, for which I had only a Pass, which did not count for University entrance. I re-sat the exam the next year, however, and got my necessary Credit. So I had Credits in English, Welsh, History, Geography, Arithmetic, Algebra, Geometry , Latin, French and Biology –, enough to set me on the road to qualifying for university, which was my father’s ambition for me. Nearly every father in Gowerton at that time, working in the coalmines, steelworks or tinplate works, wanted their sons to go to university and become teachers, and NOT go down the mines, or into the works. I went on to Form 6, in order to study for the Higher Certificate of Education, because one also needed two or three of those to get into university. This was a two year course, during which I was already making enquiries at University College Swansea regarding the Social Science Course. I needed to qualify at that in order to apply to the Home Office for Training to become a Probation Officer, which had been my ambition since discovering that my Uncle, Fred Davies, was a Probation Officer in Swansea. He used to call from time to time to see my father, and sometimes talked about his work. When I first got to know him, he lived in Bishopston on the Gower, where we used to visit him so that we could go to the beach at Caswell Bay. He later moved to Llanelly for some reason, where he saw out his days of retirement.
Grandma's Funeral
1950, however, was marred by the death of my grandmother, who was 82 yrs old and frail, and had been in bed for several years. Gwilym Thomas the undertaker was contacted, and the coffin duly delivered to the house, and Grandma was laid out in it in the parlour, and the room liberally splashed with lavender water to counteract the smell of death. I still associate the smell of lavender water with funerals and death. Numerous relatives and friends and chapel members called at the house to offer their condolences, and all had to be taken into the front room, the Parlour, to see, and say “Goodbye” to Grandma, and I was formally taken in, because it was the proper thing to do. Mam also told me it was so that I would not have nightmares! It seemed to me much more appropriate to have the corpse in the house where people could come to visit, rather than, as today’s practice is, putting them in an undertaker’s parlour to await burial or cremation, which seems so detached and impersonal. The service was held in the parlour, led by Y Parch (The Rev.) James Abel, our minister in Tabernacle Chapel, and then the men of the close family, including me, left in the chief mourners’ car, while most of the other men walked behind, down through the village and across Stafford Common to the cemetery at Kingsbridge, where Grandma was laid to rest with her husband, who had died in 1925. This was my first funeral, but I had to attend very many in later years, to represent my father when he was too ill or in too much pain to go himself, and, more recently as friends and colleagues and family members pass on.
One of the first funerals I had to attend for my father was that of an aged aunt who had lived in Pantyffynon, Carmarthenshire for years, and whom I had only met a few times when we went to visit all the relatives in that area. I am not sure how they were related to us. It was probably that they were related to my grandmother in some way. However, I cannot remember how I got there – it must have been by bus, unless another relative from Gowerton took me, but I arrived at the house to find it packed with men. There were several ministers from the various chapels in the area, and between them they conducted a service which last for an hour. We then piled into cars and set off for the chapel, where a large number of members and neighbours were gathered. There were, if I remember rightly about four ministers who all contributed to the service, and each stood up in turn to recite verses from the Bible. The service there lasted over an hour, and then we all trooped off to the cemetery, where there were more people waiting for us and there was another service which also went on for about an hour. Then we all went back to the house for food and talking about the old lady, and catching up with all the news from family members who had not met since the last funeral. I have never, in all the funerals I have attended since, known such a long as that - and all in Welsh!! Perhaps it was not quite as long as that, but it seemed like it at the time.
While in the First Year Sixth, I learned that although until then, one had to be 25years old to get onto the Social Science Course, they had dropped the age to 21, with the stipulation that one had to have worked in the big bad world for at least two years, before starting the course. I also learned that I did not need Higher Certificates to get on the course, only a general education. The certificates I had already passed were sufficient, and I found I could change over from History, and Geography which I was studying, to the Commercial Form to do Shorthand, Typing, Book-keeping and Economics, which I thought would be much more useful to me, a) at university, and b) as a Probation Officer, so at the end of the First Year Sixth, I arranged to change over. I therefore re-sat the mathematics exams at School Certificate level, and got my Credits, and spent the second year, learning to drive a typewriter, and to write at speed in Greg’s Shorthand. I also learned the rudiments of Economics and, despite my antipathy to mathematics grasped the general principles of Book-keeping as well. The next problem was what to do from 18 to 21 years of age to gain that extra qualification required by the University College of Swansea, namely, the two years experience of work in the real world.
Enlisting in the Army
I was due to do my National Service as soon as I left school and was duly summoned to a medical and education examination at the Army Recruiting Office in Swansea. I dreaded to think what the police or the army or the Government would do to me if I refused to go, so I went. During the day, after a fairly basic medical examination, during which I was told I had flat feet when I stood normally, but not when I stood on my toes (?!), we had a lecture from the Recruiting Sergeant who explained the advantages of joining the regular army, the main advantage being that regulars were paid twice the wages of National Servicemen, and stood a better chance of promotion.
So, in October 1952, I enlisted for the Royal Army Educational Corps, and was ordered to report to the Depot of the East Surrey Regt., Kingston-on-Thames for infantry training.
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